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Dillon Pyron - 22 Jan 2006 03:36 GMT Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy of 20 years, has been diagnosed with breast cancer.
Treatment options still to be determined, but chemo is the current front runner. The surgeon we talked to on Friday thinks a lumpectomy is six months is a goal. We will see an oncologist next week. In addition we've started the process for a referal to MD Anderson.
We're upset, but hopeful. As one friend said, six months ago was the dark ages compared to the treatments available today.
Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now!
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Scott - 22 Jan 2006 03:50 GMT > Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the > last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy > of 20 years, has been diagnosed with breast cancer.
> Treatment options still to be determined, but chemo is the current > front runner. The surgeon we talked to on Friday thinks a lumpectomy > is six months is a goal. We will see an oncologist next week. In > addition we've started the process for a referal to MD Anderson.
> We're upset, but hopeful. As one friend said, six months ago was the > dark ages compared to the treatments available today.
> Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! Don't let it get on top of you.
Don't loose faith.
The will to live and the love of life are *at least* as powerful as all the medicine modern man can manufacture.
The human spirit and the brain are area's of medicine the Chinese tapped literally centuries ago that Western medicine still cant define or explain.
All the doors are open, don't just walk through one or two, walk through them all.
You have nothing to lose.
Carol and you will be in our prayers, and never forget that she will be OK.
Soon as you let doubt creep in, all is lost.
Scott
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George Price - 22 Jan 2006 06:08 GMT Sorry to hear that; I hope they caught it early. I'm not sure why to wait six months to take it out ? Unless they want to shrink the tumor with chemo first. Definitely get to MD Anderson as soon as possible; they have the latest greatest everything...we have a branch of their cancer center here in Orlando; they are on top of any state of the art threatment available on the planet.
Your friend is correct. There are new treatments being relased almost every month. They have come a long way with chemotherapy, although some will make one real sick...they're selective piosons, some worse than others.
My mom was diagnosed with a pre-leukemic condition in July. The pathology book on this disease gave a median survival rate of ten months...the book is two years old. She has been taking a new chemotherapy for seven days on, twenty days off since then and her white cell count has been normal after the second course of chemo. They are now trying to back the chemo down to a maintenence level to cut back on the complications of low hemoglobin and platelets. She takes something for nausea before the shots they give here for the chemo, and shes fine; still has her hair. This an example of the strides they have made with treatment...but keep in mind that all cancers and their subsequent treatments are all different; but they all have one factor in common: How advanced was it at detection? That can mean everything.
Best of luck to your wife. I would bypass anyone in between if possible, but I'm sure there are some hoops to jump through with healthcare insurance as to referals. Get to MD ANderson as soon as possible.
George
> Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the > last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! Popeye - 22 Jan 2006 06:22 GMT E-mail me your phone number.
Now.
> Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the > last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! Suds (Popeye's friend) - 22 Jan 2006 06:40 GMT I'm sorry to hear that.
My mother survived a battle with breast cancer over 30 years ago. The science than was not nearly what it is today. Inform yourself and get a good doctor. Don't be afraid to shop around. You are in this together.
suds
Dennis (Icarus) - 22 Jan 2006 07:00 GMT > Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the > last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! Best of luck to Carol & yourself.
You both will be in my prayers.
Dennis
Grumman-581 - 22 Jan 2006 09:09 GMT > Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the > last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy > of 20 years, has been diagnosed with breast cancer. To keep up my reputation, I guess I have to make some totally crude, rude, and socially unacceptable remark... Sorry, but I can't seem to think of one at this time... Oh well, I guess you can just tell her I said good luck anyway...
(and pretend that I was able to come up with something totally crude, rude, and socially unacceptable)... <sick-grin>
Dillon Pyron - 22 Jan 2006 19:25 GMT >> Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the >> last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] >(and pretend that I was able to come up with something totally crude, rude, >and socially unacceptable)... <sick-grin> We are seriously thinking MD Anderson. It's 3 1/2 hours away and Carol's folks live in Houston. If nothing else, it'll be an excuse to finally buy you that drink.
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Grumman-581 - 22 Jan 2006 20:31 GMT > We are seriously thinking MD Anderson. It's 3 1/2 hours away and > Carol's folks live in Houston. If nothing else, it'll be an excuse to > finally buy you that drink. Yeah, give me a shout when you get down here... I hear MD Anderson is pretty damn good for that sort of stuff...
mag3 - 22 Jan 2006 11:09 GMT >Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the >last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy >of 20 years, has been diagnosed with breast cancer. ......
>We're upset, but hopeful. As one friend said, six months ago was the >dark ages compared to the treatments available today. We're "carrying an extra pony bottle" for her Dillon. All our thoughts and prayers.
>Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! And as creepy as the concept is for us, the very same holds true for us gents! 1 in 100 males get diagnosed with breast cancer every year (remember, we have 'em too guys, much as we hate to admit it). Plus, of course, the gender specifc issues (prostate/testicular vs. ovarian/cervical).
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Arnold
Dillon Pyron - 22 Jan 2006 19:29 GMT >>Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the >>last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] >too guys, much as we hate to admit it). Plus, of course, the gender specifc issues >(prostate/testicular vs. ovarian/cervical). I have a friend who is in the 1% club. Other than being cancer, it was a non-event for him. But he's there for us and has even made some rather helpful suggestions on dealing with some of the side effects of chemo.
I personally do a quick jiggle test every shower and do a through exam once a week. I get a PSA and a poke in the a.s every year. Along with the poop test.
Thanks for the thoughts, they reall do help.
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mag3 - 22 Jan 2006 20:58 GMT >>And as creepy as the concept is for us, the very same holds true for us gents! >>1 in 100 males get diagnosed with breast cancer every year (remember, we have 'em [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > >Thanks for the thoughts, they reall do help. No problem, only that I wrote this before breakfast. What I should have said was, "1 in 100 breast cancer diagonses are of males."
But yes, testicular, prostate and colo-rectal are greater issues for us.
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Arnold
nitespark - 22 Jan 2006 11:44 GMT > Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the > last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! Dillon, I am indeed sorry to hear about the diagnosis.
However, early diagnosis and prompt treatment, along with the ever changing and advancing research continues to put the odds in your (and your wife's) favor. I can only imagine how you feel, but please know my prayers are with you and your wife for a speedy recovery and complete remission of the disease.
A very close friend of mine was diagnosed with testicular cancer about 10 years ago. Five years later, he was still cancer free and remains so to this day.
Andy
-hh - 22 Jan 2006 12:10 GMT > ... > We're upset, but hopeful. As one friend said, six months ago was the > dark ages compared to the treatments available today. Dillon,
I'm also sorry to hear about the diagnosis. But you've hit on the keys: diagnosis and prompt treatment. The constantly advancing research is making the odds better daily.
Our prayers are with you and your wife for a speedy recovery and complete remission, with good quality of life during and after treatment.
> Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! Absolutely. And I'm sure that had Grumman-581 thought of it, he would have graciously offered to perform a free pre-screening :-)
And for the men, don't forget your proctology exams.
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Dillon Pyron - 22 Jan 2006 19:30 GMT >> ... >> We're upset, but hopeful. As one friend said, six months ago was the [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] >Absolutely. And I'm sure that had Grumman-581 thought of it, he would >have graciously offered to perform a free pre-screening :-) Sadly, I was the one who found the lump.
>And for the men, don't forget your proctology exams. > >-hh  Signature dillon
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Grumman-581 - 22 Jan 2006 20:34 GMT > Sadly, I was the one who found the lump. Need a second opinion? <dirty-old-man-grin>
Wow, that second cup of coffee really made a difference... <sick-grin>
Jammer Six - 23 Jan 2006 00:01 GMT > And for the men, don't forget your proctology exams. I've been trying VERY hard to forget mine...
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Grumman-581 - 23 Jan 2006 05:52 GMT > I've been trying VERY hard to forget mine... The problem with going to doctors is that you might find out something that you don't want to know... Maybe as a pilot, I'm a bit more sensitive to that sort of thing... If I 'know' about it, I might have to report it on my next flight physical... Of course, that doesn't mean that I *would*, but I like the concept of plausible deniability...
Rod - 22 Jan 2006 15:09 GMT >Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the >last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > >Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! Dillon, sorry to hear your news. Fortunatly breast cance is no longer a death notice. Get to MD, it's a good place.
bob crownfield - 22 Jan 2006 20:31 GMT > Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the > last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy > of 20 years, has been diagnosed with breast cancer. dillon, you and carol will be in our thoughts.
make each day the best you can. if things go well, you will have a great life.
no matter what happens, you will still have had the best possible.
Marshall Karp - 23 Jan 2006 22:12 GMT Dillon,
I stopped what I was doing and said a prayer for you and your wife. Please keep us posted. Stay strong.
> Ladies and gentlemen, we've had some very scary news delivered in the > last two days. My beloved Carol, wife of over 25 years and dive buddy [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Ladies, exams and mammograms. Now! Lee Bell - 24 Jan 2006 03:43 GMT Dillon,
If you haven't done so already, get second opinions as soon as you can. There are lots of things that can be done, all of which work best if done promptly. As hard as this is on you, it's harder on your wife, much harder. She needs lots of love and support, but more than anything, she needs to know you're there with her now and will be later.
Together, you can get through this and, as hard as it is to believe now, in no time at all, your life will return to near normal.
Our prayers are with you and your wife.
Lee
Grumman-581 - 24 Jan 2006 05:38 GMT > If you haven't done so already, get second opinions as soon as you can. Hey, I already called dibs on giving him a second opinion... <dirty-old-man-grin>
Dillon Pyron - 25 Jan 2006 23:26 GMT >Dillon, > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] >She needs lots of love and support, but more than anything, she needs to >know you're there with her now and will be later. We'll talk to one oncologist tomorrow and another on Monday. The second one comes highly recommended. Our surgeon is considered one of the best breast surgeons in the area. Then there's MDA. We are definitly "option hunting", although Carol (and I) want to do something. Although the folks at the Breast Cancer Resource Center say not to rush in. It's been six days since she was diagnosed. We've taken to saying that she's a 5 day, now 6 day, survivor.
What drives me crazy is that I've always "been there" for her. We've been supporting each other for over 25 years of marriage and another 3 1/2 dating before that. She says I'm doing everything she needs me to do, but it feels so helpless. But the BCRC says that's just the way I'm going to feel.
>Together, you can get through this and, as hard as it is to believe now, in >no time at all, your life will return to near normal. We have a cruise planned for March 13. Right now it's still on. We are going to live normal lives, or as normal as we can be.
>Our prayers are with you and your wife. Thanks. I guess that's just payback for all the times I worried about you and hurricane <pick a name>.
>Lee >  Signature dillon
Could have been is in the past Could be is in the future There is only the now
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