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odysseus - 03 Dec 2005 03:22 GMT
Hi all,

I am 23 years old, I am living I don't know why in the freezing cold,
the minesota winter, and not only are things looking hard temperature
wise, but also job market and career. I was thinking why don't I try
become a scuba dive instructor? I am thinking of all different
professions- i'm kind of a generalist person- and if I do decide to be
an instructor, it will not be without it's due diligence and
seriousness. I'm going to take it seriously as a serious profession, if
I decide to go for it. But I was thinking of going back to koh tao,
thailand, where I had my training to advanced.. and becoming an
instructor there. I know there's a market.

I was wondering about the cost and I was wondering about the
committment, and about the process. This type of work you are always on
vacation, even when you are working! It is warm, and thai food is
wonderful! But I was also wondering about the pay and financial
compensation. That is not the most important thing to me, what is most
important is doing something you love. At this age I'm very undecided
about career and life direction, so maybe scuba can be a five or 10
year relaxation and reflection period, a nice fun detour. I got along
great with everybody I learned from and met, and I got to meet lots of
foreigners, and some pretty girls! I was wondering what the committment
is like, the cost of training, and that kind of thing. I am looking
forward to making some life choices. do what you like and do it where
you want!
Jammer Six - 03 Dec 2005 07:52 GMT
> This type of work you are always on vacation, even when you are
> working!

Nope.

Coffee, boy, black, hot and now.

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chilly - 03 Dec 2005 09:53 GMT
The problem with trying to escape your life, is that wherever you go, there
you are.

> Hi all,
>
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> forward to making some life choices. do what you like and do it where
> you want!
Popeye - 03 Dec 2005 11:16 GMT
> The problem with trying to escape your life, is that wherever you go,
> there
> you are.

 I can't imagine feeling like that.

 For just a fraction of a second, I almost felt sorry for you.

 But I got over it.

>> Hi all,
>>
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
>> forward to making some life choices. do what you like and do it where
>> you want!
chilly - 03 Dec 2005 18:37 GMT
> > The problem with trying to escape your life, is that wherever you go,
> > there
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
>   But I got over it.

:^)  I wasn't talking about myself, of course.  Nor is it original advice to
those that want to run away.

I do feel sorry for you but you'll never understand why.
chilly - 03 Dec 2005 18:40 GMT
> > The problem with trying to escape your life, is that wherever you go,
> > there
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
>   But I got over it.

Not to mention, that nowadays, it seems wherever I go, you show up.

"Loser."
Popeye - 03 Dec 2005 21:37 GMT
>> > The problem with trying to escape your life, is that wherever you go,
>> > there
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Not to mention, that nowadays, it seems wherever I go, you show up.

 I was here before you were, and I'll be here long after you're forgotten.

> "Loser."

 "The problem with trying to escape your life, is that wherever you go,
there you are."

 Compared to who...?
chilly - 04 Dec 2005 02:25 GMT
> > Not to mention, that nowadays, it seems wherever I go, you show up.
>
>   I was here before you were, and I'll be here long after you're forgotten.

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzttttttttttttttttt

> > "Loser."
>
>   "The problem with trying to escape your life, is that wherever you go,
> there you are."
>
>   Compared to who...?

It's just an old adage, Doug.

Though it might mean something to someone that keeps moving and changing
jobs . . .
Popeye - 04 Dec 2005 02:36 GMT
>> > Not to mention, that nowadays, it seems wherever I go, you show up.
>>
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
> It's just an old adage, Doug.

 Check...

> Though it might mean something to someone that keeps moving and changing
> jobs . . .

 Or to someone aging fast, alone, and stuck in the same -excruciatingly-
monotonous rut.

 You're the one that posted it...
chilly - 04 Dec 2005 02:44 GMT
> > Though it might mean something to someone that keeps moving and changing
> > jobs . . .
>
>   Or to someone aging fast, alone,

more projection

>and stuck in the same -excruciatingly-
> monotonous rut.
>
>   You're the one that posted it...

You're the one having the strong reaction to my posting.

Sorry.
Popeye - 04 Dec 2005 03:07 GMT
>> > Though it might mean something to someone that keeps moving and
>> > changing
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> You're the one having the strong reaction to my posting.

 Is that like your leap to "admiring"?

> Sorry.

 You're the one that posted it...

 Sorry.
chilly - 04 Dec 2005 03:16 GMT
>   Is that like your leap to "admiring"?

It wasn't my leap.  Grumman said it:

"> I seem to remember that he believed his actions were right until the
end...
> There is something to admire in that..."

How's Kingman?
Popeye - 04 Dec 2005 03:26 GMT
>>   Is that like your leap to "admiring"?
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> How's Kingman?

    I'm on the phone with Curtis...
Kristian - 03 Dec 2005 12:41 GMT
Go for it, you only live once.
The pay is not good and it will cost a fair bit to become instructor.
Check the fees by calling PADI or which ever organisation you will use,
remember you will need to have your own equipment and training material.
If you do decide to become an instructor, make sure the course director you
choose to train you is good. Ask around about who can be recommended.
odysseus - 03 Dec 2005 21:49 GMT
ahh, finally some words of wisdom. I don't need a bunch of chumps to
insult my ideas. thanks kristian
Grumman-581 - 04 Dec 2005 00:58 GMT
> ahh, finally some words of wisdom. I don't need a bunch of chumps to
> insult my ideas.

Then *why* did you come here?

http://www.geocities.com/grumman581/welcome-rec-scuba.htm
Popeye - 04 Dec 2005 01:22 GMT
> ahh, finally some words of wisdom. I don't need a bunch of chumps to
> insult my ideas. thanks kristian

 Better you here it now from us than find out the hard way later.

 If you want your ego stroked, go see your mom.

 Welcome to Rec.scuba, a.shole.
Rod - 04 Dec 2005 02:47 GMT
>> ahh, finally some words of wisdom. I don't need a bunch of chumps to
>> insult my ideas. thanks kristian
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>
>  Welcome to Rec.scuba, a.shole.

why is it that when one's preconscived ideas are agreed with. it is
"Words of wisdom" ?
Jammer Six - 04 Dec 2005 04:32 GMT
> why is it that when one's preconscived ideas are agreed with. it is
> "Words of wisdom" ?

Something about chumps.

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Jammer Six - 04 Dec 2005 04:33 GMT
> I don't need a bunch of chumps to insult my ideas.

Yes, you do.

Where's that coffee, boy?

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odysseus - 04 Dec 2005 23:30 GMT
territorial, aren't we! most people seem to be

I think everyone has a right to work that they love. ya only live once.
in jobs, most people probably need discipiline, motivation,
encouragement, if not force. but if you have a job you can be proud of
you need none of this, because you are self-initating

i wanted to konw what kind of committment I could expect. you can't
analyze an idea, and therefore can't make plans, until you know of the
level of committment and responsibility. if you can, i don't know how
yet. what i choose for profession, temporary or forever, I plan on not
becoming a hack or a jack at it, but being qualified and performing at
least as much, if not beyond, what my qualification says i should

i guess that's just my attitude. i know it's probalby a bad one
John Mason Jr - 05 Dec 2005 19:32 GMT
> ahh, finally some words of wisdom. I don't need a bunch of chumps to
> insult my ideas. thanks kristian

How can I automatically quote the previous message when I post a reply?
<http://groups.google.com/support/bin/answer.py?answer=14213&topic=250>

What's good 'netiquette' when posting to Usenet?
<http://groups.google.com/support/bin/answer.py?answer=12348&topic=250>

John
Dillon Pyron - 04 Dec 2005 19:56 GMT
>Hi all,
>
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>thailand, where I had my training to advanced.. and becoming an
>instructor there. I know there's a market.

Let's see, in 10 years I've made about $1000 a year for 4 of them, and
less than $500 for 2.  And lost money on the other 4.  Of course, if
you want to head to the tropics you can probably make enough to live
on, as long as you can remember the daily special at the restaurtant
you're working at at night.  Also remember that many of these tropical
resorts have national laws favoring local citizens over foreigners.

>I was wondering about the cost and I was wondering about the
>committment, and about the process. This type of work you are always on
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>forward to making some life choices. do what you like and do it where
>you want!

Expect to spend anywhere from $1000 (an 8 week weekend course) to
about $2500 (a one week residential course) or more for the IDC.  I
don't know exactly what the IE is these days, figure about $500 for
that.  Add insurance and annual membership, totalling about $750 (I
could do the numbers if I were so damned lazy, call PADI and they'll
tell you everything).

If it's your dream, go live it.  But make sure you take a major dose
of reality with it.  And be aware that sometimes it just doesn't pay
to work at a hobby you love.  Imagine doing the same dive 6 times a
week.

Most instructors in the tropics don't teach much.  They're DM's.  As
will be pointed out by others, learn to make good coffee.  I know a
few DMs who make a living at it, but not many.  They all work for high
end dive operators and are considered family.  The ones who aren't
actually family.  I worked as a DM for one of them for a summer.  Up
at 4, lug tanks to the boat, at the dock by 6:30, off we go by 7:15
(after serving coffee and donuts to the clients).  Two dives and back
to the dock by 2.  Trailer the boat back home, lug tanks to the fill
station.  Oh yeah, wash down the boat at the dock.  Off work about 4.
If it's Wednesday, that means a night dive, so a quick nap until about
5:30, then down to the dock with the boat, stopping for pizza along
the way.  You can figure the rest out.

Not exactly the glamourous life.  I did open water referrals for a
total of 4 students.  You're value really goes up when you have a
6-pack license or (even better) a 100 ton master's.
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chilly - 05 Dec 2005 02:33 GMT
> >thailand, where I had my training to advanced.. and becoming an
> >instructor there. I know there's a market.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> you're working at at night.  Also remember that many of these tropical
> resorts have national laws favoring local citizens over foreigners.

The other thing odysseus should remember is to keep enough money available
to buy his ticket home.  Otherwise, he may find himself wanting to go home
but not be able to make enough for the airfare and other trip expenses back.

(snip)
-hh - 05 Dec 2005 03:35 GMT
> The other thing odysseus should remember...

There's dozens of "one more things".

First off, I'd not go the Tropics/Resort route without first picking up
good training for Diesel Engine mechanic - - DM's are a dime a dozen,
but someone who can fix the diveboat's engines will be (slightly)
better valued.

Overall, the profession's a great way to lose weight and get in shape
by hauling tanks.  Of course, if you have even the slightest hint of a
preexisting back injury, "Stop, Do Not Pass Go".

Finally, the comment made about "running away" is a very accurate one:
when it comes to "small island" ExPats, a good rule of thumb is that
half of them have "issues" of one sort or another.

-hh
Morten Reistad - 10 Dec 2005 15:31 GMT
>> The other thing odysseus should remember...
>
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>but someone who can fix the diveboat's engines will be (slightly)
>better valued.

I give these recommendations to lots of people.

Before you go, see to it that you cover as much as possible of the
"full six" :

* The dive side . Preferrably more than an OWSI, at least certify
 a hundred or more students at home before you go. Dry suit conditioned
 instructors are valued everywhere.

* The dive equipment side. See to it that you have experience in
 fixing dive stuff, and can document it. We jokingly call it
 "PADI Caddy Course"; all gasblender and service exams, service
 techs from at least 5 major vendors, and experience in this.

* The boat stuff. At the very minimum a Yachtmaster Offshore, preferrably
 a full ocean 250 ton certification. The offshore/ocean part is more
 important than the tonnage. Prepare to take full instrumentation and
 astronavigation courses.  

* The engine stuff. Ability to make diesels work is essential. Must
 be documented, but can come from many sources.

* Sales experience. This may be from the job you have to fund it all.
 Experience from professional sales staffs in large organisations is
 well appreciated. Teaching skills may substitute.

* Language skills. The USians have a challenge here.
 The guests will instantly favour the guide that understands their
 home language. It includes cultural skills and other international
 experience is valuable.

>Overall, the profession's a great way to lose weight and get in shape
>by hauling tanks.  Of course, if you have even the slightest hint of a
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>when it comes to "small island" ExPats, a good rule of thumb is that
>half of them have "issues" of one sort or another.

There are a number of warm, aggreeable places that will overlook this
if Interpol isn't pestering too hard, and you bring in the cash.
But be a nuisance, and they will whisper a word to the old place
you wanted to get away from.

-- mrr
-hh - 11 Dec 2005 13:27 GMT
> Before you go, see to it that you cover as much as possible of the
> "full six" :

Good list.

> >Finally, the comment made about "running away" is a very accurate one:
> >when it comes to "small island" ExPats, a good rule of thumb is that
> >half of them have "issues" of one sort or another.
>
> There are a number of warm, aggreeable places that will overlook this
> if Interpol isn't pestering too hard, and you bring in the cash.

FWIW, I wasn't really thinking of legal problems as much as personal
problems that will follow with you wherever you go - - alcoholism,
depression, jealousy, etc.  As what was already mentioned this thread,
"The problem with trying to escape your life, is that wherever you go,
there you are."

Even if you're mentally screwed together OK, the other island residents
will contain those who are not, and you're now in a  'small island'
microcosm where everyone knows everyone and it can be hard to avoid
individuals:  are you up to having to deal with it on a daily/weekly
basis?

-hh
Jammer Six - 05 Dec 2005 05:29 GMT
> Otherwise, he may find himself wanting to go home
> but not be able to make enough for the airfare and other trip expenses back.

Nope.

He'll never do it.

He wants to know about commitment, and he wants to know before he
decides.

It'll never happen.

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Matthias Voss - 05 Dec 2005 10:59 GMT
>>>thailand, where I had my training to advanced.. and becoming an
>>>instructor there. I know there's a market.
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> The other thing odysseus should remember is to keep enough money available
> to buy his ticket home.

That's what the one and half ounce gold necklace is for.
Second advice, if working abroad, is to get a second
passport, in case one gets confiscated.
Reason for getting  a 2nd passport are you travel
frequently, and namely you have to travel when one passport
is being sent away somewhere because a visa application.

Matthias
chilly - 05 Dec 2005 11:47 GMT
> > The other thing odysseus should remember is to keep enough money available
> > to buy his ticket home.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> frequently, and namely you have to travel when one passport
> is being sent away somewhere because a visa application.

Interesting.  I didn't even realize you could get more than one passport
unless you had dual citizenship.
Matthias Voss - 05 Dec 2005 12:13 GMT
>>>The other thing odysseus should remember is to keep enough money
>
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> Interesting.  I didn't even realize you could get more than one passport
> unless you had dual citizenship.

I had two, in the Eighties, when I was working abroad
frequently. Since it took sometimes weeks to get a visa, it
was essentiell.
The trap DMs may fall for, is, when they borrow money from
their employer, and are unable to pay it back because of the
low income they have. The employer, of course, will keep
their passport in his safe.
So they have to work longer to get their passport back.

Matthias
Dillon Pyron - 05 Dec 2005 17:46 GMT
>> > The other thing odysseus should remember is to keep enough money
>available
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>Interesting.  I didn't even realize you could get more than one passport
>unless you had dual citizenship.

In the US, you can't.  The only ways you can get a new passport are to
send your old one in or to declare it lost/stolen/destroyed, in which
case the old one is "removed".  A friend lost her passport in Oz this
spring.  It took her 4 hours at the US embassy to get a one year
passport.  And $150.  I would imagine that one could get a new one in
most countries by simply declaring it stolen.

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chilly - 05 Dec 2005 18:41 GMT
> >Interesting.  I didn't even realize you could get more than one passport
> >unless you had dual citizenship.
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> passport.  And $150.  I would imagine that one could get a new one in
> most countries by simply declaring it stolen.

Same up here.  Mayhap things are different in Mattias country?
Charlie Hammond - 05 Dec 2005 19:02 GMT
Somebody wrote:
..
>> In the US, you can't.  The only ways you can get a new passport are to
>> send your old one in or to declare it lost/stolen/destroyed, in which
>> case the old one is "removed".  A friend lost her passport in Oz this
>> spring.  It took her 4 hours at the US embassy to get a one year
>> passport.  And $150.  I would imagine that one could get a new one in
>> most countries by simply declaring it stolen.

I lost a passport several years ago.  I was able to get it replaced at
the Miami passport services office (whatever it is called) the next day.
(This is a wild story, but we'll not go down that rat-hole!)

I was told that if I EVER lost it again I would NEVER be issued a passport
that was good for more than one year.  I cannot verify that this is an actual
"rule" or that this "rule" is actually enfourced.  However, lost passports
are taken seriouslu!  If you ever loose one, report it as soon as you
notice it is missing -- even if you are not replacing it right then.

See http://travel.state.gov/passport for the forms and procedures.

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Greg Mossman - 05 Dec 2005 20:30 GMT
> I lost a passport several years ago.  I was able to get it replaced at
> the Miami passport services office (whatever it is called) the next day.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> are taken seriouslu!  If you ever loose one, report it as soon as you
> notice it is missing -- even if you are not replacing it right then.

I've lost my passport twice and still managed to get a third.  I've had my
passport seized as well, but that's a different story.
Dillon Pyron - 06 Dec 2005 05:07 GMT
>> I lost a passport several years ago.  I was able to get it replaced at
>> the Miami passport services office (whatever it is called) the next day.
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>I've lost my passport twice and still managed to get a third.  I've had my
>passport seized as well, but that's a different story.

Was that before you after you changed your name?
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jim frei - 07 Dec 2005 01:55 GMT
> I've lost my passport twice and still managed to get a third.  I've had my
> passport seized as well, but that's a different story.

Had mine siezed at the Yugoslavian border while passing from Austria in
1978...but since I wasn't on a dive trip, this story belongs in another
forum.
Greg Mossman - 07 Dec 2005 17:14 GMT
>> I've lost my passport twice and still managed to get a third.  I've had
>> my passport seized as well, but that's a different story.
>
> Had mine siezed at the Yugoslavian border while passing from Austria in
> 1978...but since I wasn't on a dive trip, this story belongs in another
> forum.

I had mine seized in the good 'ole US of A.  Toronto, to be more specific.
Geo - 07 Dec 2005 17:34 GMT
> >> I've lost my passport twice and still managed to get a third.  I've had
> >> my passport seized as well, but that's a different story.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> I had mine seized in the good 'ole US of A.  Toronto, to be more specific.

Preclearance?

Geo
Greg Mossman - 08 Dec 2005 00:58 GMT
>> >> I've lost my passport twice and still managed to get a third.  I've
>> >> had
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>>
> Preclearance?

Yep.  Just like those secret prisons in Romania.  Violating my rights as an
American before I even get back to America.  And ever since, that passport
seemed to get me in trouble.  Fortunately it was lost, and the new one
doesn't seem to have me flagged as some sort of traitor.  Haven't been back
to secondary yet at home or in any of the countries I've visited recently,
though I haven't attempted Canada since the last time I was brutally
interrogated on arrival in Calgary.
Geo - 08 Dec 2005 02:25 GMT
> Yep.  Just like those secret prisons in Romania.  Violating my rights as an
> American before I even get back to America.  And ever since, that passport
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> though I haven't attempted Canada since the last time I was brutally
> interrogated on arrival in Calgary.

How did I guess?

They do a pretty good job of violating our rights as Canadians as well,
despite being on Canadian soil. We do have the right to invite them to
venture forth and fornicate with sheep, but good luck getting into the
US anytime thereafter.

Seems the more miserable get that gig. Must be something to do with our
weather.

I used to run that gauntlet a couple of times per month, sometimes
more. Thank God that's over.

Shame about your experiences in Calgary, its one of my favorite cities
in the world.

Geo
Greg Mossman - 08 Dec 2005 04:17 GMT
> They do a pretty good job of violating our rights as Canadians as well,
> despite being on Canadian soil. We do have the right to invite them to
> venture forth and fornicate with sheep, but good luck getting into the
> US anytime thereafter.

Most of the U.S. is overrated anyway.

> Seems the more miserable get that gig. Must be something to do with our
> weather.

Or maybe they get paid in Canadian.

> I used to run that gauntlet a couple of times per month, sometimes
> more. Thank God that's over.

I definitely prefer driving across the border.  Airports make everyone jumpy
and nervous so we all appear like smugglers.  With the U.S.'s vested
interest in keeping out dangerous contraband like Cuban cigars, it's a
wonder they don't cavity search everyone.

> Shame about your experiences in Calgary, its one of my favorite cities
> in the world.

It's OK.  After X-raying my bags again and asking me all sorts of personal
questions (I lied - thankfully that was before they got computer linkage to
U.S. databases), I made it through.  My previous time in Calgary was worse.
After discovering that there's no such thing as a late night convenience
store that sells beer, I was turned on to Dial-a-Beer by the motel clerk.  A
great concept that we should import to the states, except that my $20 six
pac of Kokanee arrived at room temperature.  Drinking an entire six pac of
warm beer is really nasty.
Matthias Voss - 08 Dec 2005 10:23 GMT
>>Yep.  Just like those secret prisons in Romania.  Violating my rights as an
>>American before I even get back to America.  And ever since, that passport
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> venture forth and fornicate with sheep, but good luck getting into the
> US anytime thereafter.

From New Zealand? Why?

Matthias
chilly - 05 Dec 2005 11:47 GMT
> > The other thing odysseus should remember is to keep enough money available
> > to buy his ticket home.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> frequently, and namely you have to travel when one passport
> is being sent away somewhere because a visa application.

Interesting.  I didn't even realize you could get more than one passport
unless you had dual citizenship.

Not to mention that if your 1 1/2 oz necklace goes missing, your passport
may very well be gone in the same pocket. ;^)
Morten Reistad - 10 Dec 2005 15:01 GMT
>> >thailand, where I had my training to advanced.. and becoming an
>> >instructor there. I know there's a market.
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>to buy his ticket home.  Otherwise, he may find himself wanting to go home
>but not be able to make enough for the airfare and other trip expenses back.

If he really wants to relive Odysseus's travels he should spend every
last nicle, and then take work on a tramp boat to work his way home.

-- mrr
Mud - 06 Dec 2005 06:03 GMT
I built and ran a couple of bars in Portugal in my 20's. I thought that
would be the perfect occupation. Lots of booze and women and song etc.

It was fun for two years, then gradually became harshly boring. Drunks are
so annoying to deal with on a daily basis.

I'm not comparing diving with bar ownership other than to say.. You may find
being a dive instructor just as much fun after two years as as I did in
dealing with drunks.

That doesn't mean it's not a good idea.

Looking backwards, I wouldn't have missed the opportunity for anything. You
never know where that path might lead you. I learned so much in those two
years about myself and people in general and I found a perfect woman.

Be wary of advice from others in these chats, most of them have never (and
will never) attempted anything even remotely similar.

> Hi all,
>
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> forward to making some life choices. do what you like and do it where
> you want!
chilly - 06 Dec 2005 06:09 GMT
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> Be wary of advice from others in these chats, most of them have never (and
> will never) attempted anything even remotely similar.

Most of us aren't 23 either. ;^)
Dillon Pyron - 06 Dec 2005 21:40 GMT
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>> Be wary of advice from others in these chats, most of them have never (and
>> will never) attempted anything even remotely similar.
>
>Most of us aren't 23 either. ;^)

Or even twice that, any more.

When reality jumps up and bites you in the a.s, it tends to hold on
pretty tightly.
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John - 08 Dec 2005 05:45 GMT
I will say, whatever the cost., go for it.; whatever the outcome, at least,
you can proudly say, been there, done that..... you can put another chapter
behind you, besides, who knows what that path may lead to ?

wish you all the success.....

> Hi all,
>
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> forward to making some life choices. do what you like and do it where
> you want!
odysseus - 08 Dec 2005 22:19 GMT
my instructor had like 12 years of teaching experience, he was
seriously devoted and interested. that is definitely his vocation, his
calling

It's so different being back in the states. you get re-adjusted here.
Having family here pulls you back

I'll probably go back abroad. I'll probably immigrate. I'll probalby
raise my future children in a foreign country, like hemingway or
something

the only reason to live in a city like this is career, and everyone who
i read about for career advice, they seem satisfied, but they are all
just telling themselves that. they dream of going abroad, they dream of
doing something different but lack the confidence and courage and know
how

I see it in the books in the bookstore. I read a new term called
"duppies" which means depressed urban professionals!

so yeah, i think I will strongly consider going back when my lease ends
in the spring. i want to do this for profession, but still, I am going
to be searching for a vocation. thanks everybody
 
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